After careful consideration I decided it would be far easier to right an article about how to replicate my own behaviour in order for readers to become Mr Right than for me to delineate how to identify Mr. Wrong.
I joke. I cannot claim to ever being the finest example of what embodies a Mr. Right. Therefore this article may consist of hypocritical elements. But for the cougars, spinsters and bachelorette’s amongst you seeking to weed out the waste, here is my carefully drawn up list, so enjoy.
5. A Man with No Ambition
Ever noticed your date always seems to talk about football, hanging out with his mates, or going on a night out to the Pub? Ditch the dude and tell him to get himself a new engine because he has no drive. Men who spend more time talking about leisure than they do talking about their aims and goals in life certainly aren’t the type of men to steer you in the right direction, let alone themselves.
4. Bad Communicator
As a man we find it extremely easy to communicate to our ‘boys’ about the latest transfer news or the goal we just scored on Fifa, but if he doesn’t show himself to have the conversational skills required to establish a firm friendship then a more intimate relationship will surely see its walls come tumbling down.
3. Untrustworthy
Ever get the feeling that your boyfriend is a compulsive liar? Then he probably is. Relationships are absolutely built on trust and faith in your partner, and if you feel as if you cannot put your complete faith in your partner through thick and thin, your instincts ought to tell you to get to stepping.
2. Your friends and family get a bad feeling around him
It is absolutely vital that those you love and spend most time with feel as confident and happy as they do around you, around your partner. An uncomfortable air, which may be as a result of a feeling they believe he isn’t good enough for you does often blow over in time, but if such a feeling amongst the relatives and friends is persistent, there’s got to be something about the guy that reveals he’s no David Seamen (a keeper…get it?).
1. Fails to put his faith before other things
They say a man who loves his God certainly is a David Seamen. Why? Because a man who puts his faith first adheres to his faith first, and in doing should never forsake nor let you as his partner down. The Bible in particular is very clear on the values of a relationship, and one that is ordained in Christ’s name is one that is bound to be long-lasting and prosperous. So if a man fails to put his relationship with his Saviour at the forefront of his life, chances are, his partner may not be either.
Written by Hayel Wartemberg
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